It’s been an awesome voyage,” says Mr. Pam. “The fact that I’m doing something different with my life. I like that I am working in entertainment and make people happy. I love my gay boys. They are always exciting, dramatic, fun, gorgeous, tragic and everything in between!”

Just like how other gay porn stars have stories of telling their family that they were working in the gay porn industry, it was just as tough for Mr. Pam.

“My mom was really supportive as long as I am happy and keep my clothes on behind the camera,” explained Mr. Pam. “She’s had a few disagreements about things, but I couldn’t be where I am now without my mom and her conservative mind.”

Her family is even so supportive that she’s brought her Grabby Awards to places like swim meets where her little cousin has posed to get pictures with it. But it wasn’t just her family who was there for Mr. Pam, her friends were with her along the way.

“They were telling their friends and showing off,” giggled Mr. Pam. “I remember coming back from a shoot for a week and they were like, ‘please, stop with the dick and the cock’. I don’t really have a filter.”

Yes, Mr. Pam has been incredibly fortunate with her successes. Her creativity, skills, talent and bubbly personality make her one of the best gay porn directors. However, like everyone, it hasn’t gone without challenges along the way.

“I think this industry is so competitive and keeping on top of what’s new and exciting,” said Mr. Pam, referring to some of the biggest challenges she has personally faced. “It’s everything from trends in gay sex, technology, cameras, and lighting. Guys come to porn for so many reasons. It’s personal. It’s technical. It’s entertainment. I’ve just trust my guts and stay on top of my game.”

Mr Pam

It’s not just porn stars who have embarrassing moments on set either. Mr. Pam has had her awkward moment caught on camera too!

“I had to shoot a nine-man orgy in the pool when I was on my period,” laughed Mr. Pam. She warned the guys before they jumped in the pool and they re-assured her it would be ok. “Luckily nothing tragic came out of it. It was fine. No sharks.”

Of course there are many funny and awkward moments when it comes to working in the gay porn industry, like the time when Mr. Pam was shooting at a marina and the closest bathroom being a mile away. Being that there aren’t any secrets when on a porn set, a couple of the studs from the set grabbed Mr. Pam by the arms, kindly helped dangle her over the side of the pier so she could tinkle behind what she thought was a power box. The next thing she knows, there’s a group of four guys filming the entire thing. Porn can be quite spontaneous and full of funny and embarrassing moments.

Mr. Pam is part of the fabric of the gay porn industry. The award-winning director is respected by her peers and is the life of every party. She can always bring a smile to anyone’s face and is an amazing person to be around. Mr. Pam is raunchy as fuck and isn’t afraid to do whatever it takes to get a scene shot.

Mr. Pam currently lives in San Francisco, California and is the director of film at Naked Sword Originals.