There doesn't seem to be a consistent definition

by Anonymous

reply 34

June 28, 2020 12:44 AM

"A mouth is a mouth, man"

If you've ever said this, it's you.

by Anonymous

reply 1

September 25, 2015 8:18 PM

An oral top is just a top.

The idea that tops don't want to suck dick is silly and some weird outdated alpha thing.

by Anonymous

reply 2

September 25, 2015 8:33 PM

A mouth is not a mouth, sorry.

by Anonymous

reply 3

September 25, 2015 8:34 PM

Oh, an a mistaken R1? Is an oral top supposed to be a top that won't suck dick? I guess that makes more sense if so. Today I learned.

by Anonymous

reply 4

September 25, 2015 8:34 PM

Yes. An oral top is a top who sucks cock....lots of cock.

by Anonymous

reply 5

September 25, 2015 8:37 PM

R4: that's what I always assumed it meant

by Anonymous

reply 6

September 25, 2015 8:37 PM

See, people in this thread have conflicting definitions. Some use it to only describe an oral role, the active role in oral. Others use to connote both one's oral and anal roles---active in anal, passive in oral.

by Anonymous

reply 7

September 25, 2015 9:02 PM

Top = Penetrator (fucking, being sucked)

Bottom = Penetrated (being fucked, sucking)

Active = fucking, sucking

Passive = being fucked, being sucked

by Anonymous

reply 8

September 25, 2015 9:08 PM

Yeah, OP, I've seen that description on plenty of guys' "dating" profiles. Most whom I've encountered have defined it as a top who's REALLY into oral. In other words, he's signalling that he's not a wham-bham-thank-you-Dan guy, but one who likes to take his time orally exploring before getting to the fucking. At least that's been my experience.

by Anonymous

reply 9

September 25, 2015 9:42 PM

And oral top is one who receives oral sex.

"Top" in this sense means the "less degrading" or "man" position.

"Bottoms" mean the "woman" position.

by Anonymous

reply 10

September 25, 2015 11:33 PM

[quote] Top = Penetrator (fucking, being sucked)

[quote]Bottom = Penetrated (being fucked, sucking)

And never the twain shall meet!!!

by Anonymous

reply 11

June 27, 2020 4:14 PM

[quote]And oral top is one who receives oral sex.

[quote]"Top" in this sense means the "less degrading" or "man" position.

[quote]"Bottoms" mean the "woman" position.

Can we get this engraved somewhere?

by Anonymous

reply 12

June 27, 2020 4:15 PM

I thought it was a top who can't get It up anymore?

by Anonymous

reply 13

June 27, 2020 4:19 PM

The tops always put the dick INTO stuff.

The bottoms receive the dick into themselves

by Anonymous

reply 14

June 27, 2020 4:21 PM

A lot of People use the term to mean a dude who gets sucks but never sucks

by Anonymous

reply 15

June 27, 2020 4:22 PM

[quote]The tops always put the dick INTO stuff.

[quote]The bottoms receive the dick into themselves

This is good and right.

by Anonymous

reply 16

June 27, 2020 4:22 PM

[quote]A lot of People use the term to mean a dude who gets sucks but never sucks

Well put.

by Anonymous

reply 17

June 27, 2020 4:23 PM

Oral top is the greedy motherfucker that never seems to be able to host either.

by Anonymous

reply 18

June 27, 2020 4:25 PM

Oral top = he likes oral, but he'll only get sucked. You're not allowed to stick your dick in his mouth, you must suck.

by Anonymous

reply 19

June 27, 2020 5:04 PM

I hadn't really heard this much before apps. It usually means I want you to suck my dick and service me then I am out of there. Which is fair if someone agrees to it.

I had a guy who's profile was all about getting you off. Kept messaging me, begging me to come over and let him suck me off. One morning, I acquiesced and went over there. He was older than his pics, which is not unusual. There were some other things that would preclude him from fuck material, but he was all over my dick as soon as I got there. So fine. It was good head.

After I got dressed, he cops this attitude and quips "Is that it?" It was obvious he wanted me to get him off. I get that. I don't get into non-reciprocal sex acts. It's just part of my damaged psyche. But I don't advertise that I do get into it. He knew I was headed to work, so I just looked at him and said "Yes, I thought that was what we were doing?"

I did actually text him back and explain nicely. He understood and actually changed his profile.

by Anonymous

reply 20

June 27, 2020 5:37 PM

[quote]You're not allowed to stick your dick in his mouth, you must suck.

Very good!

by Anonymous

reply 21

June 27, 2020 5:38 PM

R20 What a little bitch! You should have beat him silly.

by Anonymous

reply 22

June 27, 2020 5:39 PM

I was an oral and anal top when I was active during and after the HIV epidemic. I suck occasionally now if uncut.

by Anonymous

reply 23

June 27, 2020 7:45 PM

Activo only means you never are penetrated, oral or anal

by Anonymous

reply 26

June 27, 2020 11:20 PM

Make them be specific.

Everyone tends to think of a Total Top as “You will suck me/I will fuck you. I will not suck you/you will not fuck me.”

Some think of Oral Top as “You will suck me/I will fuck you/I will suck you if I feel like it.“

Others see Oral Top as “You will suck me/I will NOT fuck you. I will not suck you/you will not fuck me.

by Anonymous

reply 27

June 27, 2020 11:29 PM

You HAVE to consider the sores!

by Anonymous

reply 28

June 27, 2020 11:30 PM

Or you could just say what the fuck you want and get on with it.

by Anonymous

reply 29

June 27, 2020 11:33 PM

I always assumed it was a top who wouldn't shut up.

by Anonymous

reply 30

June 27, 2020 11:38 PM

It's an irrumator, OP, and I'm gonna irrumate YOU!

by Anonymous

reply 34

June 28, 2020 12:44 AM