[quote] More likely to regulate self-esteem through overt self-enhancement (over-claiming abilities or exaggerating situations to project superiority) Denial of weaknesses. Exaggeration of abilities. Controlling others whilst both belittling (criticizing) and taking credit for their actions.

This is kind of sad in his case. His anger right now is anchored in his racial identity. I can understand that given the cultural moment we are in, but in his case he always is angry about something different—yet he has always been hung up on his "mulatto" (his term) identity and his gayness, leading me to believe his whole personality disorder, which is to say his whole personality, is anchored in insecurity and self-loathing about being mixed and gay, putting all the eggs of his self-esteem into the basket of his conventional good looks. He has always put others down. I remember when I first came across a video with him and I googled him because I thought he was beautiful, and what I found were pages and pages of people saying he is a hateful narcissist who tweets complaints that he is paired up with inferior men who don't deserve to do porn, who complains about the men who pay him for sex, says he is too good for literally everyone he interacts with. This quality has transferred to his anti-racist activism, which compromises his message.

[quote] Inflated demands of entitlement, superiority ("Don't you know who I am?"). Exaggerated beliefs of self-importance, superiority, achievement, and ability; manipulative behaviors as well as expectations of obedience, admiration, and entitlement; and preoccupation with “fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty, or the perfect mate".

It seems he sees himself as the perfect mate and part of his frustration is that no one he knows measures up to his view of himself.

[quote] Consistent anger when confronted with unmet expectations or any perceived slight or accountability for actions. Prone to easily exploding into rage, overreacting, and possibly even becoming aggressive whenever they feel attacked by even the slightest criticism. Blame shifts when accountable.

He's right from the pages of the personality disorder diagnostic handbook.

[quote] Diminished awareness of the cultural dissonance between their expectations and reality, along with the impact this has on relationships

[quote] Overt presentation of grandiose fantasies, wealth, success, and status.

This one is particularly interesting given his pinned tweet showing off his body and his awards. He's practically a textbook illustration of a pathological narcissist.

[quote] Oblivious that expectations of entitlement (overspending, taking advantage) may make a poor impression on other people.

[quote] Conflict within the environment is generally experienced as external to these individuals (i.e., not their fault), rather than as a measure of their own unrealistic expectations

You're the one with the problem!