He keeps talking about the hot girls he wants to fuck

by Anonymous

reply 1

June 6, 2022 5:02 AM

He said my hag is very hot and he wants to fuck her

by Anonymous

reply 3

June 6, 2022 5:04 AM

I might set him up with my hag so I can make him happy.

by Anonymous

reply 4

June 6, 2022 5:06 AM

Not sure I would be considered bi, but been with women. Most of my relationships have been with previously married to women sorts. Marrying one of them soon.

by Anonymous

reply 5

June 6, 2022 5:10 AM

You let him know your pussy will ruin him for all other bitches. No woman or fag will ever be better than you.

Whisper this to him, while grabbing his balls.

by Anonymous

reply 6

June 6, 2022 5:11 AM

Yes.

I think something like 85% of bisexuals end up in opposite sex marriages.

Someone on this board argued once that not every relationship is supposed to be forever, that I get.

But you end up feeling like a seat filler because they know you’re gay and not the woman of their dreams. They know there’s a woman out there who is going to make them feel “normal” and heteronormative. And they’ll be looking for her while they’re with you.

I think bisexual men can’t resist being with men but know women are the safest bets to a happier life, or that’s what they think.

A lot of them still suffer from straight male conditioning that gay men reject because they have no interest in a wife and kids with the picket fence and never listened to that nonsense. But a lot of bisexual men do.

by Anonymous

reply 7

June 6, 2022 6:46 AM

But I won’t say I didn’t have great relationships with my bisexual exes.

Of course women are going to come on here and say how horrible men are.

But my experience with bisexual men is they think they have to work hard to be in a relationship with you cause they’re so using to having to work hard with women.

I didn’t meet these guys on Grindr, some of them took years to happen. Years of cat and mouse and unspoken feelings.

That’s why the break ups were tough and once you hit your 30’s, you’re usually the last hurrah before the marriage to a woman.

I love bisexual men. Gay men don’t look at me the same way. Hopefully in my 40’s I’ll get the wave of divorced bisexual men looking to get back on the cock.

by Anonymous

reply 8

June 6, 2022 6:55 AM

For him, no.

For you, tears and then suicide.

Bisexual is just a LAYOVER to Straightville.

by Anonymous

reply 9

June 6, 2022 7:08 AM

You are in danger, girl. Run fast as possible.

Now If you're the self-loathing type, then go ahead.

I like my bfs only gay, bisexuals is just for fuck and nothing more.

by Anonymous

reply 10

June 6, 2022 7:23 AM

It won’t end in tears, it will end in shit smears

by Anonymous

reply 11

June 6, 2022 7:26 AM

Good luck. You'll certainly need it. Actual gay men and actual bisexual men are not compatible for obvious reasons, and if you want to ignore hundreds of years of how most bisexual men will always denigrate homosexuality and gay men, and choose heterosexuality, then I hope you are resilient enough OP.

by Anonymous

reply 12

June 6, 2022 7:55 AM

>>>>Bisexual is just a LAYOVER to Straightville.

Straight women always say the opposite, that bi is just a couple blocks from Gaytown.

by Anonymous

reply 13

June 6, 2022 8:03 AM

R13 bi men play both sides. They are duplicitous chameleons.

by Anonymous

reply 14

June 6, 2022 8:05 AM

This is what happens with most bi men OP.

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by Anonymous

reply 15

June 6, 2022 9:42 AM

R15 You would never imagine someone who looked like that to not be gay. I read part of the article, Jesus Christ!

by Anonymous

reply 16

June 6, 2022 1:54 PM

R16 I know. But he is a bisexual mess!

by Anonymous

reply 17

June 6, 2022 1:56 PM

OP, best wishes to you. From my experience with bisexual men, I can’t guaranty how it will end. The bisexual men I’ve known stayed gay. The one I dated, my “first love”, spent a good amount of the time we were together making numerous references to his “heterosexuality”. One time when we had one of his straight male friends over, he kept talking about fucking past girlfriends. His friend had to tell him to have some respect for me, to not talk like that in front of me. Looking back now the issue was that I didn’t have any self respect. My impression of gay culture, at that time in history -mid 90s, is that homosexuals weren’t respected by the movement itself. It was all about bisexuality. I came to believe that there was something wrong with me for not being bisexual. At that time people just called themselves gay or would say they didn’t understand “labels”. I came to believe that actual fully evolved gays could have sex with men or women. That’s what I picked up from gay culture at time. Fast forward to today, to what you’re dealing with. A man who refers to himself as bisexual. A clear delineation between you are and what he is. I haven’t been single in two decades, but I do remember what it was like. Do you have the self confidence to not proceed, not get any closer, because he’s not what you’re looking for? Or, based on the title of this thread, are you looking for some sort of martyrdom?

by Anonymous

reply 18

June 6, 2022 2:22 PM

It certainly ended in tears for me. I knew he was bi, but I was young and naive and he was sexy and funny. We were on our fifth date, had a lovely picnic on Box Hill and made plans for the next day. We stopped at a pub for a drink and he nipped to the loo. He was gone a while, so I went looking for him and found him chatting up the barmaid.

He denied there was anything to it, of course, but I can read flirty gazes and sensuous hand touching. I dumped him, I heard they got together and she had his baby. They broke up and now he's back on Tinder. I swiped left.

by Anonymous

reply 19

June 6, 2022 2:26 PM

R16 Totally. SMH at the women who settle for these men. I’m guessing she was raised by a single mother or a lousy male figure in the home. No self respect.

by Anonymous

reply 20

June 6, 2022 2:27 PM

R17 See response R20, it was meant for you. Responded to myself, lol.

by Anonymous

reply 21

June 6, 2022 2:30 PM

R19 That sounds like a happy ending to me. You saw a red flag and bailed, much respect to you.

by Anonymous

reply 22

June 6, 2022 2:32 PM

Thanks, R22, you're right - lucky escape!

by Anonymous

reply 23

June 6, 2022 2:33 PM

Did anyone on here read anything by Michel Foucault when you were younger? He predicted this. At that time though, I read the tone of what he wrote as a cause celebre . This is the “bisexual paradise” he was talking about. That bisexuality would become more widely accepted, and that actually gay men would be even more of a minority than we already were. What was keeping bisexual men in one “camp” or another, straight or gay, was society’s disdain for (male) bisexuality. Even at 18 (the age I was when I read these excerpts) I felt uncomfortable with that. Foucault himself was homosexual. I don’t think he would’ve felt comfortable living in a world like this. If he was alive today I could almost see him writing a book calling for Victorian-like propriety and modesty, lol! And calling for the defunding and destruction of social media outlets and online porn.

by Anonymous

reply 24

June 6, 2022 2:52 PM

Another BS thread of fake consensus is building.

by Anonymous

reply 25

June 6, 2022 3:05 PM

If you're a gay man, you've no idea how humiliating it is to discover your boyfriend was cheating on you with a woman. I'm still not over it and never will be.

by Anonymous

reply 26

June 18, 2022 2:04 AM

So what do you all say about the professional married man with several children, married for years, but still likes to get down on the other side of the fence from time to time?

What's the big deal about playing with bi men? Perhaps you should have categorized them just as they catagorized you - fun while looking for the real deal. If they can keep you at arms length emotionally as they wait for a hetero relationship to take form, then you do the same while waiting for that homo relationship. Right?

by Anonymous

reply 27

June 18, 2022 2:15 AM

That is an excellent point, R27. The problem is that many bisexual men do not say this at all, as they want the comfort of being in a relationship while they find the woman of their dreams. That is why so many of these relationships end acrimoniously and gay men end up becoming embittered, resentful and mistrustful about bisexuality: in many cases, they are in love and refuse to listen to the voice of experience because their man keeps telling them that they want to build a life together and all of that nonsense. It isn't true, of course, but all of us refuse to see reality when we're in love.

I have met gay men who have refused to enter into relationships with bisexual men in order to protect their own emotional integrity, only to be accused of being bigots. I've also known a few cases of gay men who were clearly told that they were their bisexual boyfriends' BTN (Better Than Nothing), and that as soon as a woman appeared things would be over or they would have to make concessions - these stayed our of sheer stupidity, only to end up deeply burned in the end. Of course in these cases, these gay men only had themselves to blame.

The case is that in the majority of cases bisexual men mislead gay men, play with their emotions and deliberately deceive them, and we're entirely justified in mistrusting them.

by Anonymous

reply 28

June 18, 2022 2:33 AM

Then you are all quite justified in your apprehension. I suppose the right thing to do is either stay away completely, or fuck them once or twice and move on. Whatever happened to being friends?

by Anonymous

reply 29

June 18, 2022 2:39 AM