Anyone fall down this rabbit hole? I have and can’t stop throwing money at these dudes. Any favorite “models”? Should I become a VIP?

by Anonymous

reply 17

March 10, 2023 8:16 PM

Is this post from the year 2000?

by Anonymous

reply 1

January 14, 2023 3:01 AM

Never paid for anything. But I will say that I find Adam4Adam way better than Grindr in that there's a good selection of guys and many aren't complete weirdos or ugly. Grindr seems just like it's bots or serial killers at this point.

by Anonymous

reply 2

January 14, 2023 3:06 AM

R1 no! This is the site where dudes jerk off for you or fuck each other for “credits” that you pre pay for. It’s not the dating site. There’s like 250 of them all ready to blow their loads for tips!

by Anonymous

reply 3

January 14, 2023 9:50 PM

How is it any different than chaterbate

by Anonymous

reply 4

January 14, 2023 9:59 PM

Adam4Adam had a period of time where it was one of the better sites, but it seems to have died the same death as the rest of the sites.

by Anonymous

reply 5

January 14, 2023 10:44 PM

I like that with Adam4Adam, you can filter based on your preferences. I'm so annoyed Grindr doesn't let you and makes you stupidly high prices to do so. If you're a gay guy with preferences for body type, race and sexual position, it makes sense to be able to filter. It saves everyone's time and prevents actually more harassment.

by Anonymous

reply 6

January 14, 2023 11:00 PM

R4 I’m new to all this. I don’t know from Chaterbate!

by Anonymous

reply 7

January 14, 2023 11:27 PM

It's spelled Chaturbate R4. Here bitch:

Offsite Link

by Anonymous

reply 8

January 14, 2023 11:33 PM

BUMP! I find myself spending time on A4ALive when I should be working. It's addictive and I have so many questions! Do they all get that pink vibrator in a starter kit? Why do all the rooms look so similar- are they all in the same big soundstage or house? What's up with the shitty techno they all seem to listen to? Who monitors the content? Why so many South Americans? I WANT ANSWERS!

by Anonymous

reply 10

March 9, 2023 7:49 PM

The pink vibrator thingy is the surest way to get tokens quickly. The ones without it are mostly newbies who quickly change their minds. The rooms only look similar because of the camera effect. Listening to techno during fucking is huge among non-American homosexuals as it mirrors the pumping rhythm and doesn't make the sex romantic -- for most performers, this is business only. The site's moderators monitor the content, relying mostly on reports of violations by the users themselves. South American countries have lower purchasing power, so people do these gigs on the side to be able to afford more stuff, plus their gays (and men in general) are much less sexually inhibited than elsewhere in the world.

Needless to say, if you find this habit interferes with your work, health, and/or social life, you should consider cutting back or even stopping and replacing it with a healthier habit, before it goes too far.

by Anonymous

reply 11

March 9, 2023 8:06 PM

Thanks R11. I don't throw a lot of money at it but can't seem to look away. I appreciate your insight!

by Anonymous

reply 12

March 9, 2023 8:11 PM

And there is another option. Caturbate.com.

by Anonymous

reply 13

March 9, 2023 10:16 PM

[quote]Anyone fall down this rabbit hole? I have and can’t stop throwing money at these dudes. Any favorite “models”? Should I become a VIP?

You're already a Very Important Patsy to them.

by Anonymous

reply 14

March 9, 2023 10:18 PM

[quote]And there is another option. Caturbate.com.

No one here is into pussies.

by Anonymous

reply 15

March 9, 2023 10:18 PM

Why would you pay, millions of these performances have been recorded and posted on many pornsites where you can watch for free.

by Anonymous

reply 16

March 10, 2023 12:36 AM

It's the live aspect for me. I like A4A live better that Chaturbate because I feel like the models are better looking and more "committed"! I find that on Chaturbate the more you scroll, the more it's just fatties. I mean, no offense to them, but I'm not here to see them jerk off. I DO hate when the models on A4A decide that they are going to sing along to the crap they are listening too, sometimes with great passion and drama. STOP SINGING and PUT THAT VIBRATOR IN YOUR ASS PABLO!

by Anonymous

reply 17

March 10, 2023 8:16 PM